Attending a party can be an exciting social event, but making the right impression requires a touch of finesse and sophistication. Whether it's a casual get-together or a more formal affair, embodying class and style will set you apart for the rowdy crowd.

This guide will walk you through some essential tips on how to be classy at a party, ensuring you not only enjoy yourself but also leave a lasting, positive impression on others.

The 25% rule
A great starting point is the 25% rule: aim to dress 25% better than the people around you.

This subtle upgrade in your attire can convey confidence and authority —plus, you’ll look better in all your photos. If you're unsure of the dress code, consider the event's context. For instance, a button-up shirt is perfect for a casual kickback, but a suit might be overkill for a backyard barbeque.

Dressing well isn't just about impressing others—it's also about boosting your self-respect and maintaining a mindset that encourages good decisions throughout the night.

Bear Gifts
While bringing a gift to the host might seem like a tradition long forgotten, it's a simple gesture that speaks volumes.

Imagine it from their perspective – they've opened their home, prepared food and drinks, and are creating a fun atmosphere.

It doesn’t have to be a large or expensive gift. A bottle of wine, a case of beer, a bag of chips, or even flowers go a long way. Be sure your gift fits the occasion—a case of beer works well for a barbeque, while a box of chocolates is better suited for a dinner party. 

It's a small touch that leaves a lasting impression.

The 3 connection goal
Whether you’re bar hopping or at a dinner party, working the room is critical. Meeting new people benefits you, them, and the party itself.

Talking to new people allows you to make connections and stretch your social skills. It benefits strangers who are also looking to socialize and meet new people. Finally, the party benefits because more people are opening up and having fun.

A good rule of thumb is to make at least three connections when you enter a party or space. If you're shy, this can be a quick introduction or a more in-depth conversation.

If you don’t know what to say, try approaching, putting out your hand, and saying, “I don’t think I’ve met you yet.” To end a conversation, you can say, “I’m going to refill my drink,” or simply, “It was nice meeting you, I just saw my friend so I'll catch up with you later”

Know your limits
We’ve all witnessed someone overdo it and become a problem. A few poor decisions can turn a weekend rager into a nightmare lasting into the work week.

Women also find this to be a significant “ick.” These decisions impact your social standing, follow you into the future, and should be avoided at all costs.

So, when in doubt, less is more. You shouldn’t become the host's or your friend’s problem when going out. You should also always have a ride planned, like a designated driver or Uber.

Party responsibly
Summer is the season for barbeques, pool parties, and bar hopping. By following these tips, you can enjoy these events without regrets. Embrace these guidelines to be the life of the party in a classy and memorable way.

- Forte team